Can You Describe the Ruckus?

I have been spending WAY too much time trying to figure out how to respond to things without causing a ruckus...

This is not how I want to spend my time. So, I will either let it go, ignore it or give the blunt truth (especially when people are not being fair about things). Consider this fair warning for the last part - velvet glove - iron fist - *smack*

It is not my job/duty to keep the peace. I am exhausted from trying to.

Ah, I feel better now.....